HEARTBROKEN girl,26, needs help and advice on messy break up?

Leave him alone and do you. So yes you did the right thing. You've dealt w/too much of HIS problems. You're still young too and life is just too short. You had already broke up w/your ex when you started talkin to the UK guy right? So guess what, that's none of your ex's business. You weren't together. What's the point? Not everything needs to known sometimes in relationships. And do not take him along if you go to Asia or wherever. You need a whole new start on life. So you're gonna have to cut ties and be gone!